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Are You Turning Into
the WRONG Person?


Have you ever suspected that you might be on the verge of turning into the wrong person?
  Or that you already have?  Perhaps you feel as if you are living someone else's life ... or someone else's dream. Or that you are betraying your soul's code ... wearing a mask ... making choices based on shoulds ... denying your deepest creative or spiritual needs.


Take this test to find out if you are turning into the wrong person:

  • Were you once happier, stronger, more determined, more energetic than you are today?

  • Does it seem like the life you are living belongs to someone else?

  • Do you feel as if you are in a dream, waiting to wake up?

  • Are you trying to be the person your family expected you to be?

  • Is the face that you present to the world not your real face?

  • Would you be doing something else if you thought you could?

  • Are you doing what you think you should, rather than what you want to do?

  • Are you creatively, financially or spiritually blocked?

  • Do you have specific problems that seem resistant to all your best efforts, and are driving you crazy?

  • Do you feel as if you are only half of who you might be?

  • Do you wish that you could start your life over?

Did you check at least 3 statements? 
If so, you might be teetering on the verge of turning into the wrong person.

Four or more? You might have already become not-your-real-self.

__________________________

Don't panic ...

it's definitely REVERSIBLE!

___________________________


Once you choose to make turning back into yourself your highest priority, you will find that you are on a path -- the path of a lifelong intention to honor what is most real, most true, most soul-making and most spirit-nourishing.

Committing to this choice will make you feel more whole, more authentic and more alive. There is indescribable joy in the process of turning back into yourself. You become more energized and brimming with alivity. Specific problems can be identified and cleared faster, and with less resistance. Some long standing problems disappear on their own: addictions, for example are often the side effect of this longing for your true self.

(You might be surprised to learn that many of your worst problems -- addictions, phobias, low self-esteem, negative body-image, relationship dilemmas, prosperity blocks, pain and chronic illnesses -- are actually aspects of the more basic predicament of not being yourself. And you may find that they are easily cleared as you begin to become yourself again.)


          _________________________

        So, how the heck did you
          turn into the WRONG you?
          _________________________

  • You may not have realized that you were veering away from true-self.

  • You may have specific problems which mask the all encompassing predicament of not being yourself.

  • You may be afraid that the changes you need to make in order to be yourself again are either totally impossible or wildly disruptive.

  • You may be committed to turning back into yourself, but are encountering many obstacles along the way.

  • You may be aware that you are turning into the wrong person, but you just don't know what to do about it.

  • You may be missing certain vital skills that you need in order to clear away old beliefs, blocks and traumatic experiences.

           _________________________

       
     Mend Your Mojotivity:
           Turn Back Into Yourself
          _________________________

In order to start the process
of turning back into yourself,
and in order to develop the
sticktoitiveness
which is required in order to
stay the course ...
you will need to:

  • Recognize that you either have turned into the wrong person, that you are about to turn into the wrong person, or that you are failing to bloom where you are planted.

  • Make the commitment to turning back into yourself.  (This is probably the most important commitment that you will ever make!)

  • Learn how to handle the obstacles on this path.

  • Find ways to rapidly resolve specific life problems and predicaments as they arise.

  • Learn powerful practices that will allow you to take responsibility for your own wonderful life.

    (See our Mojo Bag page for an idea of what techniques might help turn back into your self again)

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To see how Lindzey
turned
back into herself,
click here.


To arrange to chat with me
about how

you can begin to
turn back into yourself,
click here.








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